Can a mother cancel child support in NY?

April 11, 2025
By Clifford Petroske

A parent cannot unilaterally cancel child support in New York. Because child support is the right of the child, not the parent, courts generally do not allow a custodial parent to completely waive or cancel payments unless there are valid legal grounds. A seasoned child support lawyer in New York can evaluate your case and assist you with the legal process of child support cancellation or modification.

Legal Grounds for Child Support Cancellation in NY

Under certain circumstances, child support may be terminated, including:

Emancipation of the Child

Unless otherwise agreed, child support obligations automatically end when a child turns 21 years old, but they can also be terminated earlier if the child is considered emancipated. This includes situations where the child:

  • Gets married
  • Joins the military
  • Becomes financially independent and self-supporting
  • Moves out and refuses contact with the parent without justification

If emancipation occurs, the noncustodial parent may file a petition in Family Court or Supreme Court to terminate child support obligations.

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Agreement Between Parents

If there is an existing court order and both parents agree to cancel child support, they must submit a formal agreement to the court in order to end the legal obligation. However, the court will only approve the request if it determines that it is in the child’s best interests. The judge may refuse to approve a cancellation if it appears that the child’s financial needs are not being met.

Child Lives with the Paying Parent

If the child moves in with the noncustodial parent, that parent may petition the court to terminate or modify child support. The court will review the child’s living situation, financial needs, and best interests before making a decision.

Termination Due to Parental Reconciliation

If parents reconcile and begin living together again, either parent may petition to terminate child support based on the changed circumstances. This typically requires court approval.

Legal Process to Modify or Cancel Child Support in New York

Filing a Petition for Modification or Termination

To legally cancel or modify child support, a petition must be filed in the New York Family Court or Supreme Court. The requesting parent must provide valid legal grounds for cancellation.

Court Review and Hearing

A judge will review the petition and may schedule a hearing to examine the circumstances. The court will consider:

  • The child’s financial needs
  • The income of both parents
  • Any existing agreements
  • The best interests of the child

If the court finds that canceling child support is justified, it may issue an order modifying or terminating payments.

Court-Ordered Termination of Child Support

If the judge grants the request, the order will be officially modified or canceled. If child support is collected through the Child Support Enforcement Bureau (CSEB), an official notice must be sent to stop wage garnishments or automatic deductions.

What Happens if a Parent Stops Paying Without Court Approval?

If a parent stops paying child support without a court order, they may face serious legal consequences, including:

  • Wage Garnishment – The court can order child support payments to be deducted from the parent’s paycheck.
  • Seizure of Tax Refunds and Bank Accounts – The state can intercept tax refunds or freeze bank accounts to cover unpaid child support.
  • License Suspension – The parent’s driver’s license, professional licenses, or even a passport may be suspended.
  • Contempt of Court Charges – The non-paying parent may be held in contempt, which could result in fines or jail time.

It is critical that any changes to child support obligations be made through the court to avoid penalties.

Our Long Island Family Law Attorneys Will Assist You With Child Support Modification or Termination

Child support obligations in New York are legally binding, and modifying or terminating them requires court approval. At Petroske Riezenman & Meyers, PC, our experienced Long Island family law attorneys can help clients accomplish the legal process of child support modification or termination.

Evaluating Your Eligibility for Modification or Termination

Before proceeding with a petition, our attorneys will carefully assess whether your circumstances meet the legal standards for modifying or terminating child support. Valid reasons for modification or termination include:

  • Change in Financial Circumstances – If the noncustodial parent loses their job, becomes disabled, or experiences a substantial decrease in income, child support modification may be warranted.
  • Change in Custody – If the child moves in with the noncustodial parent, child support may need to be terminated or reversed.
  • Child’s Emancipation – If the child is married, self-supporting, or joins the military, support obligations may end before they turn 21 years old.
  • Parental Reconciliation – If both parents reconcile and live together again, child support may no longer be necessary.

Gathering Evidence to Support Your Case

A strong case for child support modification or cancellation requires solid evidence. Our attorneys will assist in compiling all necessary documentation, such as:

  • Financial records (pay stubs, tax returns, bank statements)
  • Custody agreements and proof of child’s residence
  • Medical records in cases of disability-related modifications
  • Employment verification to prove income changes
  • Evidence to prove child emancipation, such as proof of economic independence, military service, or refusal to follow parental rules

Providing well-documented evidence increases the likelihood of a favorable outcome in court in a case of child support modification or termination.

Filing a Petition for Child Support Modification or Termination

Once we establish that modification or termination is justified, we will prepare and file a petition with the New York Family Court. This document outlines the reasons for the request and provides supporting evidence. Our attorneys ensure that the petition is legally sound and properly submitted to avoid delays or rejections.

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Representing You in Court Hearings

After filing the petition, the court will schedule a hearing where both parents present their arguments. Our attorneys will:

  • Advocate for your rights and present compelling legal arguments
  • Challenge any objections raised by the other parent
  • Ensure the judge fully understands how the modification or termination serves the child’s best interests

Judicial discretion plays a critical role in the decision, so having skilled legal representation is essential.

Negotiating Agreements Between Parents

If both parents agree to modify or terminate child support, we can draft a legally enforceable agreement and submit it to the court for approval. This approach can be faster and less adversarial than a court hearing. However, the judge must still determine that the agreement serves the child’s welfare.

  • Ensuring Compliance with New York Child Support Laws – We ensure that any agreement aligns with state laws to prevent future disputes or court rejections.
  • Mediating Disputes to Reach a Fair Resolution – If disagreements arise, we facilitate productive discussions to reach a mutually acceptable agreement.
  • Drafting Clear and Legally Sound Agreements – Our attorneys create precise legal documents that clearly outline the terms of modification or termination, minimizing potential misunderstandings.

Enforcing or Contesting Child Support Orders

If one parent stops paying child support without a court order, enforcement actions may be necessary. Conversely, if the other parent contests a modification request, our attorneys will vigorously defend your rights. Our child support modification and termination lawyers in New York can handle:

  • Contempt proceedings for non-payment
  • Modifications to prevent excessive financial burdens
  • Appeals if an unfair ruling is issued

Choose Our Experienced Long Island Child Support Lawyers

At Petroske Riezenman & Meyers, PC, we have extensive experience handling child support matters in New York, including modification or cancellation cases. We provide:

  • Personalized legal strategies tailored to your situation
  • Aggressive courtroom representation to protect your financial interests
  • Comprehensive legal guidance to help you make informed decisions

If you need to modify or terminate child support, our Long Island family law attorneys will vigorously pursue your case to achieve the best possible outcome for you and your child. To speak to an attorney, call us at (631) 337-1977 or contact us online to request your free consultation.