New York Divorce Law Waiting Period

April 11, 2025
By Clifford Petroske

Divorce in New York involves various legal requirements, including residency rules and grounds for divorce. Awareness about these requirements can help individuals going through the process avoid unnecessary delays. If you are contemplating a divorce, you should consult a divorce attorney with extensive experience and a proven record and reputation in the field.

Is There a Mandatory Divorce Waiting Period in NY?

Unlike some states that impose a mandatory waiting period before a divorce can be granted, New York does not have a statutory waiting period for divorce.

However, the length of time it takes to finalize a divorce in New York can vary due to multiple factors, such as whether the divorce is contested or uncontested, court backlogs, and the complexity of the case.

Couple is sitting at the table and signing divorce papers

Residency Requirements Before Filing for Divorce in New York

Before filing for divorce in New York, at least one spouse must meet the state’s residency requirements under Domestic Relations Law § 230. One of the following conditions must be met:

  • Two-Year Residency Rule: Either spouse must have continuously lived in New York for at least two years before filing.
  • One-Year Residency Rule: One spouse must have lived in New York for at least one year, and the couple must have:
    • Married in New York
    • Lived in New York as a married couple
    • The grounds for divorce must have occurred in New York
  • Both Spouses Are Residents: If both spouses were New York residents when the divorce was filed, and the grounds for divorce arose in New York, there is no additional residency waiting period.

Timeline for an Uncontested Divorce in New York

An uncontested divorce occurs when both spouses agree on all terms, including child custody, spousal support, and division of property. The steps for an uncontested divorce typically include:

  • Filing a Summons and Complaint – The plaintiff (spouse initiating the divorce) submits the necessary forms to the court.
  • Serving the Defendant – The other spouse must be served with the divorce papers within 120 days of filing.
  • Defendant’s Response – The defendant can sign an Affidavit of Defendant, agreeing to the divorce.
  • Submission to Court – Once all paperwork is complete, the case is submitted for judicial review.

An uncontested divorce may take anywhere from six weeks to six months, depending on court processing times and how quickly the parties complete the paperwork.

Timeline for a Contested Divorce in New York

A contested divorce occurs when spouses disagree on key issues, requiring court intervention. The process includes:

  • Filing and Serving Divorce Papers – The plaintiff files a divorce complaint, and the defendant has 20–30 days to respond.
  • Preliminary Conference – The court schedules an initial meeting to outline the issues in dispute.
  • Discovery Phase – Both parties exchange financial documents and other relevant evidence.
  • Settlement Efforts – Mediation or negotiations may occur to resolve disputes before trial.
  • Trial – If no agreement is reached, a judge will hear the case and issue a ruling.

A contested divorce timeline may range from six months to a few years, depending on the complexity of disputes.

Factors That Can Delay a Divorce in New York

Even though there is no official waiting period for a divorce under New York law, several factors can extend the time it takes to finalize a divorce:

  • Backlogged Court System – High case volumes can lead to processing delays.
  • Failure to Respond or Cooperate – If a spouse refuses to participate, the divorce proceedings may take longer.
  • Disputes Over Assets or Custody – Complex financial matters or child custody battles can significantly extend the timeline.
  • Errors in Paperwork – Incomplete or incorrect filings may result in delays or rejections of a divorce agreement.

Common Misconceptions About New York Divorce Law Waiting Period

Many people mistakenly believe that New York requires a mandatory waiting period before a divorce can be finalized. In reality, New York does not impose a statutory waiting period after filing for divorce. However, factors such as court processing times, residency requirements, and whether the divorce is contested can affect the timeline.

Another common misconception is that in a no-fault divorce state like New York, an uncontested divorce is always quick. While it can be finalized in as little as six weeks, court backlogs may cause delays. Some people also mistakenly believe legal separation is required before divorce, but this only applies to separation agreement-based divorces.

Person is taking off the wedding ring due to divorce

Our Long Island Divorce Lawyers Will Support You Through the Divorce Process

At Petroske Riezenman & Meyers, PC, our Long Island divorce attorneys will guide you through each step of the divorce process, advocating for your best interests.

Assessing Your Legal Options

Every divorce is unique, and the right approach depends on the circumstances of your marriage and your goals for the future. Our attorneys will carefully assess your case and explain the available legal options, including:

  • Uncontested Divorce – If you and your spouse agree on all terms, we will help you complete the necessary paperwork efficiently.
  • Contested Divorce – We will strategize and represent you in negotiations or court if disagreements exist regarding child custody, property division, or spousal support.
  • Separation Agreements – If you are not ready for a divorce but wish to live separately with a legally binding agreement, we can assist in drafting one.

Filing and Responding to Divorce Papers

The divorce process officially begins when one spouse files a Summons with Notice or a Summons and Complaint. Our attorneys will:

  • Ensure that your filing is properly completed and submitted to the correct court.
  • Arrange for legal service of divorce papers to your spouse.
  • Assist in responding if you have been served with divorce papers and need legal guidance.

Negotiating Fair Settlements

Divorces may involve complex financial and personal issues. We work to negotiate fair settlements regarding:

  • Division of Assets and Debts – Ensuring a fair distribution of marital property, including real estate, retirement accounts, and investments.
  • Child Custody and Visitation – Advocating for custody arrangements that serve the child’s best interests.
  • Spousal and Child Support – Helping you understand New York’s support guidelines and negotiating fair financial arrangements.

Mediating for a Faster Resolution

Divorce can be emotionally draining, but mediation offers a collaborative approach to resolving disputes faster when both parties agree to mediation. Our experienced divorce mediators can help couples reach mutually beneficial agreements while providing key advantages, including:

  • Conflict Mitigation – Mediation is typically less contentious than litigation, reducing the stress and conflict for both sides.
  • Faster Resolution – Avoiding lengthy court battles allows couples to reach agreements more quickly.
  • Greater Control – Both parties involved have a say in decisions rather than leaving critical life outcomes to a court order.

Through mediation in a divorce case, we aim to reduce stress, foster cooperation, and create solutions personalized to your family’s unique needs.

Litigation and Trial Representation

If a fair divorce resolution through negotiation or mediation is not possible, we are prepared to take your case to court. Our dedicated NY divorce lawyers will:

  • Gather evidence and prepare legal arguments.
  • Represent you in hearings and trial proceedings.
  • Advocate aggressively for your rights before the judge.

Post-Divorce Modifications

Life circumstances change, and post-divorce modifications may be necessary. We assist with:

  • Child Custody Modifications due to relocations or changing needs.
  • Child Support Modifications or termination based on valid legal grounds.
  • Spousal Support Modifications if financial situations change.

At Petroske Riezenman & Meyers, PC, our skilled Long Island family law attorneys are committed to providing the legal support and guidance you need during the entire divorce process. To speak to an attorney, call us at (631) 337-1977 or contact us online to request your free consultation.